Kitten update

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talisin's picture
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Well tonight I realized I had a message from the woman who is going to take Momma cat and I get this horrible feeling that when I call her tomorrow she is going to refuse to take her.....just a feeling I have I hope I am wrong......I know I told her how serious a flight risk momma would be and mentioned it to our mutual friend, but surely she doesn't think that I don't trust her to take care of momma kitty, I have not voiced anything to our mutual friend that I didn't already say to her before she agreed to take her......I hope I am just worrying too much, plus we purchased a second playpen so that she could have it to keep momma safe at her house since she feels that cats have to have outside time......maybe that's why she is calling to fuss that I mentioned to our friend that cats don't have to be outside for any reason, they live in their immediate environment.....will she want out, yes does she HAVE to be out NO.....but maybe our mutual friend told her that and she thinks I am saying she is being silly or something, or irrational.......I really can't have momma to deal with too......just thinking out loud and hoping for the best

I will get the latest kitten pics uploaded and put here tomorrow sometime......wish me luck with the phone conversation......

 

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Good luck Talisin.  I am hoping everything works out for you and the kitties.

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Ooo Tal~~ I so hope things work out for you. ( and momma-kitty) Good thoughts sent!!

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Positive thoughts from me and Loki, it will all work out. I agree that cats should be indoors only, they don't need outside time, my girls don't even try anymore.

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Well I heard from her and seems someone she knows has told her that her cat will not get along with my cat......how in the world??? the two cats have never met and this other woman hasn't met my cat or the other cat, kinda of weird; but we talked a long time and I told her that she wasn't committed to momma kitty forever as soon as she got her, that we would take her back anytime from now till forever, so she asked if she could have her for a sleepover and see if the two seem like they will tolerate each other or instantly kill each other. I told her that was fine and if she wanted to keep her a month to make sure that was fine too; but that momma is microchipped to return to us and that would be forever. She said this weekend we will do the kitty sleepover and see how it goes. I know that in 24 hours not much will be learned except whether they want to kill each other. It takes a while for cats to get along they have to run the hierarchy thing and then it works out.....hope she gives it a good shot before she gives up on her.....