Quick Rant...
AHHH. Found this on CL this morning: "Okay, so like I used to have a lab puppy but it ran away.. I really want one. I'm only 15 so I don't have that much money..;c I just want a dog. "
This makes me so unnatureally angry. Not because she's a teenager, not because she probably doesn't have enough money (or brains)to care for a dog, but because she is so flippin careless!!! Lately I've been so troubled by how our society has fallen, how so many people don't care to do a days hard work for that nice TV they own, but instead soak up other people's money and time. I've grown up by the words "He who does not work does not eat", and I have always DESIRED to be entrepreneurial and worked for myself. The idea that anyone else would pay for my every wish when I was an adult was (is) outrageous!! I'm not saying we should help the poor and needy at all, but so many in the US titled "poor" are not at all NEEDY. They have healthy bodies (if they'd shed the obesity) and able minds. WHY?! It doesn't help that I'm actively studying economics, and this year's upcoming presidential election isn't looking fantastic (when is it, right? HA)
This just was just a match in an oil tank I guess. They are so many people like she who posted the craiglist ad. I have a mind to respond to her, but maybe I just shouldn't. Sorry guys, but there is your rant for the day. :/ Happy New Year!
Abigail...I love love L-O-V-E your "This just was just a match in an oil tank I guess"
You are so right and I can only write it off as ignorance and youth.. ( kind of goes together sometimes)
Not trying to be snarky, there's a lot of us who have a passion for our fur-kids... and if not directed in the proper way as youngsters, would not know the huge responsibility connected with owning one of these precious creatures.
I urge you to
1.) take a deep breath
2.) think about how you can positively guide this kid
3.) write it out
4.) edit
5.) SEND
If written in the proper way, you might be able to not only save a pup from that oil tank, but possibly instill some much needed information...
Thank you for ranting.. Love you, and Happy New Year right back
Kate and Sofia
Alright, I'll try, I just don't want to turn her completely off. I'm not afraid of hurting her feelings, but coming along side and counseling would most likely profit in the long run (as much as I'd like to give her "what-for"
).
Argh...this is so disgruntling. How would you start off something like that? Straight up telling her why the idea is bad, first explaining exactly what goes into caring puppies, talk to her about byb's and why dogs end up in shelters (It's too guilting, I don't like it), or...I'd be comfortable writing it like a three-point essay, but that will be too long. Darn humans and their petty ways!
Start off with a compliment.. ( arrgg.. that's always the hardest) tell her how much you admire her passion and desire for a dog, tell her you "know she'll make a wonderful parent someday and 'someday is the operative word here." The go in to all the things she's going to have to give up to care for the pup... proms, vacations etc...sacrificing her allowance... etc etc.
Now darlin' bear in mind, she just might be a troll looking for this kind of attention.. ( we just ran one off from this forum yesterday) and they're everywhere.
If you feel her post was sincere.... sure.. why not go for it.. if you think it was all a ruse to get some attention.....
go for that cooking sherry you have hidden under your kitchen sink...
There are so many things that could be said. Alright, well, how is this?
"Hey there, Vanessa!
Sounds like it'll work. I would def send it. It will get her thinking.
Good work!!
Awesome Abigail.. I just love it.. I encourage you to send it and let's send a prayer along with it.. that maybe.. if not Vanessa.. it might reach someone else who needs to read it..
Thank you for your concern and great way with words..!!
Abigail---it sounds perfect!
Thank you for your encouragement and help, I hope this does something profitable. You guys are becoming great friends, I really appreciate you. Good day to Lady Kate, The Diva, Skye, and Ziva!
You might add that she could volunteer at a shelter. That might open her eyes.

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You xhould respond... There's no telling where she's gonna get a dog from, it's better to hurt her feelings and make her think twice than for her to get a pup and potentially have it end up in a shelter or "run away". JMHO